Infidelity in marriage is a major problem in this country today. The number reason given for divorce is adultery. Unfortunately, many spouses are clueless unless they actually catch their spouse with someone else. Here are a few tips on how to know if spouse is cheating on you.
A spouse who grows more and more distant over time may have some overriding stresses related to work or other areas, but this is usually one of the first signs of cheating. Intimacy becomes a distant memory. Your spouse is not interested in having sex and seldom touches you. When there is intimate contact, the spouse feels distant. It is possible that your spouse feels guilty for cheating on the lover he/she is cheating on you with. Or he/she may ask you to perform new sex acts or try new positions than you never have.
Unexpected or unexplained absence can also be another sign that there is a problem. The cheating spouse who previously returned directly home after work may have some problems getting home on time. Errands that take an inordinate amount of time is another signal. A sudden new interest that requires the spouse to be away from home can be suspect.
A spouse who for as long as you have known them was comfortable in whatever they had on may suddenly upgrade their wardrobe. This upgrade may not mean new clothes but may simply be the change from jeans and sweatshirt to a polo shirt and slacks. This sudden attention to appearance may be a signal that something is going on. If there are no dirty towels in the bathroom yet the spouse always looks clean and fresh, somewhere there are dirty towels and this needs to be looked into.
Strange telephone behavior, including an increased frequency in short calls consisting of mostly monosyllabic responses and strange numbers appearing on the caller ID or phone bill that you do not recognize and spouse denies knowledge of may be an indication that spouse is cheating.
Any of the items listed above could be a sign of other things when taken alone. Yet, as a group, these signs in any combination are indications that a spouse is probably cheating. There are many different explanations for these events, but knowing how to know if spouse is cheating is a complicated process. If you have a "gut feeling" that your spouse is cheating and any of these signs are present, you are probably right.
A spouse who grows more and more distant over time may have some overriding stresses related to work or other areas, but this is usually one of the first signs of cheating. Intimacy becomes a distant memory. Your spouse is not interested in having sex and seldom touches you. When there is intimate contact, the spouse feels distant. It is possible that your spouse feels guilty for cheating on the lover he/she is cheating on you with. Or he/she may ask you to perform new sex acts or try new positions than you never have.
Unexpected or unexplained absence can also be another sign that there is a problem. The cheating spouse who previously returned directly home after work may have some problems getting home on time. Errands that take an inordinate amount of time is another signal. A sudden new interest that requires the spouse to be away from home can be suspect.
A spouse who for as long as you have known them was comfortable in whatever they had on may suddenly upgrade their wardrobe. This upgrade may not mean new clothes but may simply be the change from jeans and sweatshirt to a polo shirt and slacks. This sudden attention to appearance may be a signal that something is going on. If there are no dirty towels in the bathroom yet the spouse always looks clean and fresh, somewhere there are dirty towels and this needs to be looked into.
Strange telephone behavior, including an increased frequency in short calls consisting of mostly monosyllabic responses and strange numbers appearing on the caller ID or phone bill that you do not recognize and spouse denies knowledge of may be an indication that spouse is cheating.
Any of the items listed above could be a sign of other things when taken alone. Yet, as a group, these signs in any combination are indications that a spouse is probably cheating. There are many different explanations for these events, but knowing how to know if spouse is cheating is a complicated process. If you have a "gut feeling" that your spouse is cheating and any of these signs are present, you are probably right.
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